The idea of evolving as a person and as a parent fills me with great excitement. I deliberately and intentionally make sure that I am not staying stuck with aspects of myself that need to be recognized and updated.  And above all, I make sure that I am living with a vision that inspires me each and every day.

I have come to understand so clearly that things don’t happen to us – they actually happen through us. And that every single thing – good or bad – that happens to us – is happening because we manifest it. 

Nothing, just happens to us, we invite it into our lives.  Since we are, indeed, manifesting every moment of every day, we may as well know how to intentionally use this power of manifestation, (that we already have), to bring our greatest dreams to life.  Especially the dreams we have for our beloved children.

I’d like to share with you the 3 ways that I personally, tap into my power to manifest a life I love. I hope you find this useful. Please leave me a comment. I would love to know your thoughts about what I am sharing.

Step 1: I Think Higher Thoughts

I begin by knowing that there is a direct relationship between what I am thinking and believing and what I will manifest in my life. Neuroscience has proven that our thoughts have vibrational energy and the kind of thought-energy we send out attracts the same energy back. (isn’t that a ‘Wow!?’) Read this sentence again if you didn’t get the Wow!)

So, I make sure that I never think thoughts that I don’t want to have happen. Not ever! If I find I am having negative, fear-filled, anxious, worst case scenario type of thought, I quickly become aware of it and replace it with a clear and positive opposite thought – a thought about what I would love to manifest and bring into my life.

I do this as many times in the day, that I may need to do it. This means I live life consciously, noting my thoughts and shifting my energy to higher thoughts. It has become a way of life for me.

Step 2: I Actually See the Dream

I carve out some serious time to reflect on – and answer the question of
“What is the dream I want to manifest (for myself, my child, my family)?”

I allow my imagination to flow and let myself see in my mind’s eye, exactly, in great detail what that dream looks like when it becomes a reality.

Once I can easily see the dream, in my mind, I ask myself another important question, “What must I do differently as a person/ as a parent so that I can bring this amazing dream to life.

I go crazy with this question. I break all the shackles I may have that are holding me back – and I think BIG. My goal is to be totally honest with myself about what I am doing currently that is keeping me stuck as a parent and as a person.  I am determined not to keep doing more of the same old, same old.

It can be tough to do this.  I look in the mirror and recognize my outdated and generationally driven program and look for what I need to do to push past.  And sometimes I turn to others that can help me with this process of unshackling myself from old beliefs and habits.

Step 3: I Feel and Live the Dream

Then finally, I live my life as though this vision or dream I have identified, has already happened. I feel the feelings of joy and excitement and fulfillment and gratitude.  And should I slip and let my negative thoughts creep in again, I return back to Step 1, remind myself that thoughts become things, and start to change my vibrations so that I connect with my inner power to being my dream to life.  And go through steps 2 and 3 again.

I wish you a wonder-filled journey ahead as you manifest a life worth living.

If you are interested in learning:

  • How to think in ways that bring peace and joy into your life
  • How to visualize a future that inspires you
  • How to let go of old ways that are keeping you and your children stuck

Take a look at my live program where I coach you step-by-step, exactly how to do this.

Dr. Sandy Gluckman

Dr. Sandy Gluckman is a parenting therapist for families that have children with learning, behavior and mood challenges.  She uses an integrative approach, which she calls ‘spirit-body-brain medicine’ for treating children with Anxiety, ADHD, Defiance, Depression, Low Motivation and Low Self Esteem, and much more.  Her practice is called Parenting That Heals.  This blog is for informational purposes and not intended to take the place of a licensed healthcare provider. Contact Dr. Sandy Gluckman in Dallas (Frisco) Texas at 214-682-8980 or sandy@gluckmangroup.com.  She is the author of the book: Parents,Take Charge: Healing learning, behavior and mood challenges without medication. A 3-Step Program.

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